This is not a pity party here so please dont make me feel bad and want to stay on this site i know my other post said i was leaving going to visit and then stay again but i just cant do any of that anymore but visit when i said it was my time to go i meant it and its got to stay that way now if you want i can update you all on the birth of my daughter that is coming really soon but other than that i will only visit a little bit here and there as you all know im going to be a dad so i have to focus on that and my wife she needs me and so will my little girl please understand and dont make me want to stay i love this site with all my heart but ya thanks bye